As we are two best friends who leaped into marriage 21 years ago this month. Raising 8 children together. Learning along the way through this journey. We failed together and separately but we always came through together.
I learned a few years ago as our family had the worse fail ever and we were all separated from each other. We looked deeply into our lives. We learned about our past experiences and traumas never had healed. We thought our friendship our love and just having each other would heal as we went on.
We finally seen a new outlook on this. We had to heal ourselves. Heal our marriage and heal our family before we can go through the journey we always talked about. So we took those few years and healed the past. Learned from our experiences throughout our lives up to our present and now we have had a tremendous amount of time together to finally have our family goals turn into a empire!
Between my major traumas from childhood(sexual,mental,emotional and physical abuse)I have learned to love myself finally and learned I’m was victim of a journey I never deserved or wanted. Today I am no longer chained to my past and I’m free to go forward. I have to allow myself to stop the cycle of my own personal history to be a better person for myself my kids and my husband. Healing is a powerful blessing. Hard to completely understand your feelings and your traumas. But in the end it’s completely different outlook for your life path.
I over thought. I over panicked. I over medicated. I always doubted myself. I never went outside my comfort zone. I never thought I was worth any kind of awesome future. But I have children watching me. I showed them enough fails. But I also showed them how to rise. Now it’s time to show them how to rise above and beyond your own expectation.
Now I my husband and our oldest daughter are apart of forex trading. We have a natural health business and two more major projects that are truly the beginning of this empire journey together.
No matter what your past looks like. No matter your doubts about your present path seems. We can have a beautiful outlook outside of our life path we just go with. Don’t lower your life or lower your expectations. Take charge. Heal !!! Be healthy and happy. go for it!